An interview structures a conversation. Men are often as reticent as
women are eloquent: women are much more socially oriented than men
and communicate easier. However, the interview technique can be a
starter to work through Grandpa's reserve. It quickly engages the
participants in a dialogue and is as much fun for one as for the other.
Vague questions by adults should be avoided; they're confusing.
Let's set up an interview.
Grandma and Grandpa plan to visit Son or Daughter and the
Grandchildren. The visit will include Grandpa or Grandma being
interviewed by Grandchild.
In arranging the visit, Grandma or Grandpa discusses with Son or
Daughter what they have in mind. A tape recorder or camcorder, in good
working order, is available or will be brought along. It's fine with
Son/Daughter and they agree to prepare Grandchild, including a set of
preliminary questions. It's a fun experience, but don't insist having an
audience that will make anyone present self-conscious or uncomfortable.
When all concerned are ready (recorder checked and set up, the date,
time, place, names, occasion, and whatever else considered prefatory has
been recorded in advance) Grandchild opens with the first question.
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